Thursday, July 31, 2008
A Shout Out to Patty
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Wordless Wednesday
Her shirt says "That's it ... I'm calling my Mimi". Mimi is what my kids (and my nieces) call my Mom. I love this shirt. I especially love it when she is wearing it and getting mad at me, as she was this morning, for doing something as obscene as trying to feed her. I know, I have alot of nerve! I love how this shot captures that "I'm getting angry" finger that she was pointing at me, too.
Happy WW.
Monday, July 28, 2008
"When I was a little baby.."
We were at my cousin's reception and the evening was winding down. The music was still playing and all of a sudden Madison felt the need to get her groove on. She just got out in the middle of the floor and started dancing her little heart out, no one else was dancing. She asked my sister, my cousin Patrick (her new boyfriend... you should have seen her flirting!), and myself to sit at the tables and watch her "concert" (her dancing). We were telling her how great she was dancing and in her best southern accent (not on purpose, I don't think), she says "When I was a little baby, my MOMMA taught me these dance moves!" It was so HIL-A-RI-OUS! I mean, first, her "Momma"???? She has called me Momma maybe twice in her whole life, and that was only because she heard another child refer to their mother that way. Second, seeing the dance, you would think that Momma must have been drunk or high, or some combo of the two to have shown her those dance moves! Third, how cute is it that she gave "Momma" the credit for her excellent dancing? Too funny.
Mommy and Maddie Weekend
At first, we intended for all four of us to make the trip for the celebration. However, the more we thought about it, it just wasn't going to be possible for us all to go, especially given McKenna's sleep schedule. It was definitely a bummer that we all couldn't go together, but both Matt and I agree that an awesome side benefit of this arrangement was that we each got to spend alot of one-on-one time with each of the girls. So, Daddy and McKenna had a great weekend at home, and Mommy and Madison had a great weekend visiting with Mommy's side of the family, going to Ryan and Jessie's wedding reception, touring Charleston, and (Maddie's favorite part) getting to swim alot in the hotel pool!
Another highlight for Madison was the plane ride. My sister flew with us and Madison was so excited to be with her Aunt Erin and to be flying in a plane. You couldn't wipe the smile off of her face! We all stayed at a hotel together, and Madison and I got to share a hotel room with my Grandmother. I was so excited that we got to spend 3 days with Madison's Gigi. My grandmother (Gigi) lives in Baltimore and we don't get to see her as much as we'd like to, so it was a really special treat for both of us. And, of course, spending time with Mimi and Pop-Pop (my Mom and Dad) is ALWAYS on the top of Madison's favorite to-do list! They were in the hotel room next door to us, so it was so fun for Maddie to just go next door whenever she wanted a Mimi and Pop-Pop fix! In fact, they dropped us off at the airport in Charleston on Sunday to catch our flight home, and within 10 seconds (literally) of us being inside the airport, Madison said "I miss Mimi and Pop-pop".
Despite all of the fun we had, Maddie did miss her daddy and her sister. Periodically, she would just blurt out "I miss Daddy and McKenna". She is so cute. Although, it seemed whenever we had Daddy on the phone, she didn't really take the time to talk to him too much :-) Isn't that always the way? I missed Matt and McKenna too. I spotted them walking into the airport to pick us up and I bolted over to them while my sister watched Madison. I almost kissed McKenna's face off!
All in all, a great time was had by all.
Congrats to Ryan and Jessie! A big thank you to my Aunt MaryAnn for being our tour guide. Another big thank you to my parents for being our chauffeurs all over town. And, a huge thanks to hubby for agreeing to this girls getaway for Maddie and I. I had such a great time being with her!
Happy Birthday, My Love!
Matt, I love you so much. You are a perfect husband and perfect father. We wish you the happiest of Happy Birthdays and thank you for being OK with us going away on your Birthday!
CSA PSA
Here are some pictures of the girls at the farm:
Bloggy Backup
Hope everyone had a great weekend!
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Shameless Bragging
So, Madison is currently going to a 3 week summer camp at the preschool that she attends. Her camp teacher is someone that she has met only a few times. This teacher had subbed in her preschool class a few times last year when Maddie's regular teacher was out sick. At the end of last week, as I was dropping Maddie off in the morning, her camp teacher approached me and told me what "beautiful manners" Madison has. She said she was really impressed about how polite and well-mannered Madison was with her and with her peers.
Now, I know that Madison is a good kid. Really, I do know that. But, it is a great feeling to have someone tell me that she is being a good, kind, polite person with adults and peers, even when I am not around to remind her to do that!
Good job, Madison. You make me so proud.
Mom, Stop Snoring!
Around 8:45pm, she called out for us. I was upstairs in my bedroom putting laundry away, so I headed to her room to see what she wanted. She looks at me straight in the face and this is how the conversation goes:
Madison: "Your snoring is waking me up, Mom!"
Me: "Madison, I wasn't snoring."
Madison: "Yes, you were."
Me: "Madison, I promise you I wasn't snoring. I am still awake. Now, this isn't funny. You now will not be able to play on your swingset tomorrow, and if you call out again, something else will get taken away. I love you. Goodnight."
Madison: "Mom?"
Me: "Yes, Maddie?"
Madison: "Do you ever snore?"
Me: "Yes, Madison, once in a while I do snore. Now goodnight!"
Madison: "Well, could you stop snoring? It is waking me up!"
It was all I could do to not start bursting out in laughter while I was still in her doorway. I went downstairs to share the story with Matt and we both had a good laugh! She is getting VERY creative.
Monday, July 21, 2008
She's pulling out ALL the stops now!
A few weeks ago, however, Madison started calling out for us to come up to her room. She will do this 1 - 3 times during the first hour she is in bed. Her needs when she calls out range from having to go potty, needing a drink, wanting a snuggle, needing socks put on her feet, or wanting to say "I Love You" one last time. Given that all of those things are part of our bedtime routine, there is absolutely no reason for her to call out for these things once its lights-out. Basically, she is searching for things to need so that she gets our attention. I am not sure what started this whole thing, but it is getting tiresome and I want to nip it in the bud. I get particularly salty about this issue when she says she has to go potty (a request she knows we wont refuse), then sits on the toilet and says "You know what, maybe I didn't have to go potty" (which I could have predicted given that she had just gone 5 minutes earlier before we put her to bed!).
Anyway, last night, she called out for us after about 10 minutes after she had gone to bed. I went up to see what she needed and she said, "Mommy, I just wanted to tell you I love you again". Now, it's hard to get upset about her wanting to share her love, but this whole business needs to be stopped, so I tried to stay firm. I tell her that I love her so much too, but that she told me when she went to sleep, and she isn't supposed to call out anymore, yadda, yadda, yadda.... If she calls out again, something will be taken away from her. Goodnight.
Another 10 minutes goes by and she calls out again. This time Matt goes up. She wants a snuggle. Matt tells her that she got a snuggle before she went to sleep, that it is time for sleep, that we expect her to STOP calling out and GO TO BED! She can have a snuggle in the morning. Then the tears start rolling and she cries " I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE ME!" OMG, this is the guilt trip of all guilt trips and it is being perfectly executed by a 3 and a half year old. I swear that Drama should have been her middle name! Although it is somewhat infuriating that she thinks she can just play us like violins, it is also very interesting about how advanced her manipulation skills are :-) I was proud that hubby stood firm and told her we loved her but she couldn't have a snuggle right now and she needed to go to sleep. But, part of me just wanted to run up there and snuggle the heck out of that little cutie, even though it wasn't the right thing to do :-)
Anyone have any thoughts on how to break the calling out cycle?
Sunday, July 20, 2008
It's Playtime!
I'm looking forward to lots of fun times out in the yard with the kids! And to getting a few swings in myself :-)
McKenna is 9 months
Frozen Peas!
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Hey Aetna.... You Stink!
Guess what?!?!? YOU STINK!
Given that we've been on our new Aetna policy for a whopping 17 days now, this was NOT the way I was expecting our new relationship to go, you know what I mean?
Now, I want you to take a look at something.... See this child, right here ???
She's a cutie, huh? Yeah, I think so too. Look, she's got reflux, ok? I know the GI doc has sent you all of her medical records, so we cant really dispute this fact, now can we? And, we've been treating the reflux really well for the last several months with Prilosec which, by the way, Blue Cross never had an issue paying for. Now, we are at a little bit of a crossroads right now trying to figure out some dosing issues to manage her reflux the most effectively. And, at this exact moment is when you are going to tell me that you wont pay for the Prilosec that has been really effective at treating her for the last 8 months??? Um, I'm sorry, but I really can't accept that as an answer. Yes, you tell me that the Prevacid is a comparable option and you will pay for that. But, if you see the above picture again, is it really fair to ask this little cutie's body to try to figure out what is going on with her coughing and congestion and her medication dosing levels, while at the same time switiching her meds altogether to something that's cheaper for you? I DONT THINK SO. If you cant tell, I am angry and you can expect a call about this from me.
GGGGRRRRRRRRRRR........
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Feeling a little verclemt
Thank you so much for this lovely honor, Kelly. I have only been blogging for about a month, and am having sooo much fun. This will just inspire me to blog even more. It's nice to know at least a few people like reading my blog :-) Yay!
Upon winning this award you are tasked with the following rules…
You have to pick 5 blogs that you consider deserve this award for their creativity, design, interesting material, and also for contributing to the blogging community, no matter what language.
Each award has to have the name of the author and also a link to his or her blog to be visited by everyone.
Each award winner has to show the award and put the name and link to the blog that has given her or him the award itself.
Award-winner and the one who has given the prize have to show the link of “Arte y Pico” blog, so everyone will know the origin of this award. http://arteypico.blogspot.com/.
With that said, here are my 5 award nominees:
Jenn at But Wait It Gets Better - she is a really great friend to me and her blog is awesome. Besides, don't you love how she refers to her little cutie pie as Funky Chicken? Too cool!
Amy at ...and baby makes four - she is sincerely one of the nicest women you will ever meet and I love keeping up with her family on her cool blog.
Sarah at These Are the Days - Ummm... what is there to say about Sarah? She has the energy of about 10 of me and I am so inspired by her creativity! Sarah just makes me smile whenever I am with her or reading her blog.
Yvonne at Our Little Ladies - Yvonne is a fantastic writer and you'll love reading her insightful blog about life with her two ADORABLE little girls.
Lori at avocado8 - She and I are friends from our birthing class when Maddie and her Beaner were born. Although we don't get to see each other or talk "live" very often anymore, I love keeping up with her fun and interesting life on her blog.
Congrats everyone!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Dinner is Served
It is so much fun to watch them interact with each other. I know there will be the "Mom, she stole my favorite pair of jeans" moments in the future. But, I really hope their loving bond continues forever and always.
Back to Square 1?
At her last GI appointment in June, she had been doing so well for the last 3 months, we decided it would be appropriate to "challenge" the amount of medicine she was taking to see if she was ready to be weaned off the medicine altogether, or at least to a lower dose. I want her to be healthy, but I also want to make sure I am giving her the least amount of meds needed to be effective. I was very happy about this plan, and she has been doing very well with the lower dose... or so I thought until yesterday.
McKenna has had a persistent cough and rattling sound in her chest for about 2 weeks now. I took her to the doctors yesterday and got her checked out. The pediatrician thinks that it is very unlikely that cough is related to any type of virus or other infection. He thinks it is related to her reflux. As soon as he said that, a light bulb went off! Why didnt I think of that!!! That makes so much sense to me and I cant beleive I didnt put 2 and 2 together. When she was little and we were just getting diagnosed and trying out different meds, those were exactly her symptoms (besides the actual spit up).... she sounded like she had bad chest congestion and a cough!
So, we need to go back to her full dose of the meds now and test the theory that this has to do with her meds being cut back. I am so bummed that we may be headed back there. I was really hoping she had outgrown her reflux and was ready to start being weaned. I just dont want her to take any more meds than she needs to. But, if she needs them, then she needs them and I will gladly give them to her. I'll be interested to see how this little test goes over the next 2 weeks. If it isnt related to the reflux, she'll need to be sent for chest x-rays.... ugh!
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Handsome Little Man...
Hershey Park Happiness...
At Hershey Park, they label each of their rides according to height and name each of those levels a different Hershey's candy. Well, Maddie measured up as a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup and to my surprise SEVERAL of their roller coasters were labeled for Reese's. Are you ready for this.... even the Super Dooper Looper!?!? Yes, we did ... I know you are wondering..... we did let our 3.5 year old go on the Super Dooper Looper. Am I CRAZY (don't answer that, anyone!)? She was just sooooo excited, never a single hint of fear, only pure excitement and laughter and happiness on every coaster she rode yesterday.
I was seriously concerned about letting my 3.5 year old on the Super Dooper Looper. It goes upside down for crying out loud! But she was very persistent, she was above the required height requirement, and my hubby wanted to take her on as badly as she wanted to go. So, off we all went to the SDL. And, you know what? It is a memory I will have with me for years and years. I got to sit with her on the SDL, Matt was behind us. The WHOLE time she was laughing, screaming "This is so awesome", throwing her arms up in the air, and had a smile plastered all over her face. Not once was she ever hesitant, fearful or anything less than just purely ecstatic to be riding. It was something to behold. She has some fears about several things, but amusement parks and water parks are not things she is scared of.
Here is Madison with Matt getting ready to ride the Comet roller coaster. This was her first ride on a "big girl" roller coaster and she loved every moment of it!
After we rode in the park for a while, we headed over to their water park and had just as much fun! We had a fantastic time on the log flume, the tube rides, and the large water play area. We were exhausted by the end of the day, but well worth it. It was so nice to have some one-on-one time with Madison and spend the whole day laughing and playing with each other.
And, thanks to Mimi for coming to spend the day with McKenna so we could take Maddie. We really appreciate it! And, McKenna loved her special day with her Mimi too!
BIG BROTHER 10!
All you other BB fans, let's hear from you!
Friday, July 11, 2008
Half Birthday!
Organization to the Extreme?
In the last few months of taking care of 2 kids and learning to give them both what they need, some things have been slipping through the cracks more than I would like. There are some household tasks that are "mine" that I haven't exactly been on top of, like paying the bills on time (I was late with the car payment and with the credit card payment on 2 separate occasions!) and keeping up with some chores, especially the laundry and keeping groceries stocked in the house. It was all really just feeling out of control and we were flying by the seat of our pants a little too much. I would just attack things when they got too stressful (or the laundry pile had gotten too tall... that just made me think of Kelly's post at A Rainbow After the Rain). So, I devised a plan.
I now have a schedule for some of my household chores. And, to say that out loud sounds totally ridiculous and much more complicated than someone's life should be.... I realize that. But, to me, it has made life so much less stressful and made our house run more smoothly! See I would just live knowing that the laundry was piling up, or the bills needed to be paid, and stress about it. But, the stress wasn't helping take action on it, it was making me feel overwhelmed. So now, I know don't have to worry about the laundry today.... it isn't laundry day.... no need to spend another minute thinking about it!
So, Tuesday is now the day that bills get paid and Thursday is the day that the laundry gets done. I know it sounds totally over the top... but it is working out so well for me!
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
To my dear husband... I AM SO SORRY!
i am a little bit of a safety freak (shari and jenn ... i hear you both laughing right now!). i keep our windows and doors locked at all times. When the windows are open (which they often are not open due to some severe seasonal allergies that hubby and I have developed), i feel the need to be on the same floor as the open windows. i will not leave ANY windows open when we aren't in the house, not even the 2nd floor. i am the person that locks the car inside the locked garage. so, it will come as no surprise that i have never considered the whole hiding a key outside thing. always seemed like i could never hide it in a place that some intruder couldn't find it. we do have one friend and a few family members that have keys to our house and i've never thought twice about needing any other back up plans... until today.
yes, i locked myself and my two sweet, unsuspecting children out of the house today. i absent-mindedly switched the lock to the garage door behind me when the big waterloo gardens truck pulled into my driveway and i went out to find out what was going on.... i havent ordered anything from them. they were trying to make a delivery to the former owner. well, guess what WG.... she hasnt lived here in 4 years. May be time to update your records, ya think?
the great news is that i had both of the kids with me... i would have been a complete mess if one or both were locked inside the house without me. the bad news is that neither maddie or i had shoes on, i didn't have my cell phone and it was nap time!
so, off to our fantastic (and retired - a bonus) neighbor's house to use the phone. call matt at work and on cell - no luck. call friends that have key on chance someone is home - no luck. call brother-in-law who has key in case he has to work a late shift today - no luck. keep calling hubby's cell until i finally get him. no one can help us out, so he has to come home. this is matt's first day back to work since vacation and i know he has a mountain of things to do today.
Matt... I'm sorry I'm an idiot and a safety freak! Thanks for coming to the rescue.
After naps I am headed to Lowes or Home Depot to get a key made. I am still not down with the idea of hiding a key, but I do trust our neighbors and will be giving them a key to hold for us in case of emergency. But, hopefully, my brain will return one of these days and this will never happen again!
Disaster Averted!
She hopped right up in the chair, picked out her toothpaste and flouride flavors, laughed with the dental hygienist, and was a total rock star! This was awesome in and of itself, but even more welcome and totally helpful to me as I was at the beginning stages of a migraine! ugh! So nice to not have to manage my headache, a baby, and a crying pre-schooler at the dental office!
Just goes to show what 6 months can do at this age to improve maturity and their fear responses to things! Good job, my little shiny-tooth girl! So, off to Chic-Fil-A we went for a celebratory lunch! A dreaded trip to the dentists office turned out to be a really enjoyable morning for us!
And, I am not getting any compensation for this, but I want to send a huge shout-out to Chester County Dentistry for Children. The staff is completely awesome there and Dr. Jeff is fantastic. I love his non-alarmist views on things (we have a thumb-sucking habit that needs to be broken). He really has a great approach with me and with Maddie and I coulndt recommend them any more fully!
Monday, July 7, 2008
Lucky Strike
Mommy even took a picture of the score board as proof. See her strike in Frame 5!
In other news, during our trip to the beach, McKenna started trying to mimick some of the things that our friend Caden can do (they are only 5 weeks apart in age). Well, Caden can clap his hands really well and looks so adorable doing it. And, McKenna has been trying hard to clap her hands. However, she's been struggling with keeping her hands open and her palms flat. She tries to clap with her hands clenched it fists, almost as if she was making the "more" sign that we have taught her.
While we were bowling, McKenna got her clapping down pat.... What a cute time to perfect it. She was our own little cheering section. Here she is:
Palms open....
And there's the clap!
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Sun, Sand, and Sickness....
Here are a few pics of some of my favorite moments:
My sweet Madison
Mmmm... ice cream!
First dip in the ocean..... not too happy :-) (It was very cold!)
Kristin and Caden
My girls
And my favorite pic of all. Thanks to Aunt Kristin for snapping the pic and to Uncle Ed for standing behind the flip flops to prop McKenna up in the picture!
The flip-flop family
Now its back to catching up on life and catching up on sleep! Back to posting regularly soon... g'night.